There comes a point in life where being ok isn't enough. When mediocre jobs with mediocre pay will be completely insufficient. Comfortable relationships will be repellingly unacceptable. And lastly but most importantly the emptiness within , the unfulfilled ego and genuinely the person we were created to be, falls by the waist side. Life is waaayyyy to short to be content and full of too many options to rigid. Problem identified! Always the first step in self improvement but the steps that follow are the hardest to complete. There are key questions one must ask themselves to get started.
While these questions seem surface and a bit dated, this is the very start to fearlessly free life.
Who am I, is not the easiest question to answer. When answering this question, close your eyes and visualize who, what, where you would be if money, life obligations, and "NO" wasn't an option. Closing your eyes is important, because this decreases the amount of distractions to extract our purest notions. Who am I and what part of my life is being held back bc Im not walking in this.
What makes me happy? The popular question is; "What could you see yourself doing for free, everyday of your life"?. What do you daydream about while on your 9-5. What sort of hobbies excite you? these are the keys to answering this question.
Who/What impedes my happiness. Who or what in your life hinders you from the very best you? Who or what things, people, places are not of good character, or positive influence in your environment. What are you opening your self up too? We are receptors, we absorb what we surround ourselves with. So checkout the tone of your conversation, and if it doesn't match your destiny , LEAVE! Getting rid of the things that don't belong allow you to see you plainly. without diversion and distraction. It leaves room to answer this question which is definitely a journey, What will make me the happiest? What can/ will I do to live MY best life? Thats just it love! Just live, live through your fears, f' ups' and freedom! Forgive yourself and Love yourself through the journey to a better you. YOU are held accountable for you and you ONLY! If someone doesn't fit, remove them. If you want to fly a plane , take the class! If you want to travel for a leaving invest the time in finding jobs or independent contracts that allow you to do so. If your happiness is have a pietatarre in NYC, MILAN or Montana Do it! Find what inspires you and be consumed with it! Love it and let it love you back!
Its so important to choose you! Choose to be happy. Choose to be healthy. Choose to be free!
Just do it!